Exploring New Rules of Relations

The much-anticipated “We Women Want Festival & Awards 2024” commenced today at the Taj Ambassador Hotel in New Delhi, featuring a panel of experts who shared their insights on the evolving dynamics of dating and relationships. Panelists included Yogita Bhayana, Founder of Pari Foundation; Tripti Rathore, Founder of Gathjor; Shalini Singh, Founder of Andwemet; and Deepika Narayan Bhardwaj, Director of Ekam Nyaay Foundation and a documentary filmmaker. The panelists addressed the changing landscape of relationships, from matrimonial sites introducing families to the growing trend of young individuals using multiple dating apps to explore their options.

Dating Without Age Limits

Shalini Singh, founder of Andwemet, highlighted the significant societal pressures that young boys and girls face regarding relationships. She noted, “Dating can happen at any age, but there is immense pressure to enter into a relationship. The discussion surrounding marriage begins when we are very young, but the real conversation about what a relationship means is often overlooked. The focus tends to be on achieving good grades, securing a good job, and letting parents find suitable partners.” Singh emphasized that many people feel guilty for taking the initiative to choose a partner for themselves, pointing to a larger issue within societal norms.

Confusion in Modern Relationships

Deepika Narayan Bhardwaj addressed the confusion prevalent among today’s youth regarding relationships. She stated, “One of the biggest challenges for this generation is the frequent breakdown of relationships. There is a disconnect between what we were taught about love and what modern behaviors indicate. Many young people are unsure of what love truly entails.” This confusion, according to Bhardwaj, leads to an ongoing struggle to understand and define relationships in a rapidly changing world.

Shalini Singh further elaborated on the challenges young adults face in the realm of relationships. “Not everyone desires marriage; many prefer commitment without the legal bindings. Financial independence has empowered people to embrace live-in relationships, which are just as valid as traditional commitments but lack legal recognition,” she explained. This shift highlights the need for legal frameworks to evolve alongside societal norms.

Protecting Women’s Rights

Yogita Bhayana shed light on the specific hurdles women encounter in modern relationships. She remarked, “Securing justice for women is incredibly challenging in our country. The enforcement of laws is often inadequate, especially regarding alimony, maintenance, and protection against violence. Women in live-in relationships find themselves in a legal gray area, lacking the protections afforded to married women. It’s essential that we advocate for women’s rights, regardless of their marital status.” Bhayana emphasized that women often face judgment from law enforcement when they report grievances, indicating a systemic issue that requires attention.

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The Role of Traditional Marriage

Tripti Rathore provided a contrasting perspective by discussing her firm belief in the institution of marriage. “I identify as the odd one out here because I strongly believe in arranged marriages. I prefer the term ‘pre-orean marriage,’ where individuals destined to connect are introduced to each other. While I respect the choice of using dating apps, I advocate for community-based approaches like Gathjor, which prioritize family involvement and conduct thorough background checks. In contrast to the plethora of profiles on dating apps, our approach values quality over quantity,” she stated.

Societal Impacts on Relationships

The panelists pondered whether the erosion of traditional marriage has contributed to the issues faced in modern relationships. Shalini Singh remarked, “Ninety percent of people are satisfied in their relationships, but it’s often the unhappy ten percent who dominate conversations, as negative experiences tend to circulate more rapidly.” Deepika Narayan Bhardwaj added that the concept of marriage is continually evolving, influenced significantly by Western ideals and changing cultural norms.

Empowering Young Women

Yogita Bhayana also discussed the shifting attitudes within families regarding daughters’ independence. She emphasized the importance of financial self-sufficiency, stating, “It is crucial for women to be financially independent so they can leave unhealthy situations. Empowering women to support themselves enables them to make choices that enhance their quality of life.”

Conclusion

The “We Women Want Festival & Awards 2024” effectively highlighted the complexities of modern relationships, emphasizing the need for open dialogues about love, commitment, and societal expectations. As the landscape of dating evolves, it is essential for both men and women to advocate for their rights and foster understanding across gender lines. The discussions led by these prominent panelists will undoubtedly contribute to a more inclusive and equitable future for all.

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