{"id":547900,"date":"2022-09-13T12:52:21","date_gmt":"2022-09-13T12:52:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/gator4138.temp.domains\/~seocloud\/website_bd55b9c6\/?p=547900"},"modified":"2023-05-19T09:19:03","modified_gmt":"2023-05-19T09:19:03","slug":"when-soulmates-break-up","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/when-soulmates-break-up\/","title":{"rendered":"When Soulmates Break Up (A Guide To Mending The Heart)"},"content":{"rendered":"<style>img#mv-trellis-img-1::before{padding-top:56.25%; }img#mv-trellis-img-1{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-2::before{padding-top:56.25%; }img#mv-trellis-img-2{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-3::before{padding-top:56.25%; }img#mv-trellis-img-3{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-4::before{padding-top:56.25%; }img#mv-trellis-img-4{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-5::before{padding-top:56.25%; }img#mv-trellis-img-5{display:block;}<\/style>\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">When soulmates break up, it can be one of the most painful experiences in life.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">It's like losing a piece of yourself and having to watch as it fades further away from you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">There are many reasons why soulmates break up.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Sometimes it's just because they're not meant to be together, and sometimes it's because one or both parties had unresolved issues that kept them from being happy together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">If you have been through the pain of losing your soulmate, this article will provide you with a guide on how to deal with a soulmate breakup.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_64 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title \">Table of Contents<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseprofile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class=\"ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 eztoc-toggle-hide-by-default\"><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/when-soulmates-break-up\/#What_Happens_When_Soulmates_Break_Up\" title=\"What Happens When Soulmates Break Up?\">What Happens When Soulmates Break Up?<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/when-soulmates-break-up\/#What_to_Do_When_Your_Soulmate_Breaks_Up_With_You\" title=\"What to Do When Your Soulmate Breaks Up With You?\">What to Do When Your Soulmate Breaks Up With You?<\/a><ul class=\"ez-toc-list-level-3\"><li class=\"ez-toc-heading-level-3\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/when-soulmates-break-up\/#1_Allow_yourself_to_feel_pain_and_loss\" title=\"1. Allow yourself to feel pain and loss\">1. Allow yourself to feel pain and loss<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/when-soulmates-break-up\/#2_Dont_try_to_fix_it\" title=\"2. Don't try to fix it\">2. Don't try to fix it<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/when-soulmates-break-up\/#3_Take_care_of_yourself\" title=\"3. Take care of yourself\">3. Take care of yourself<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/when-soulmates-break-up\/#4_Dont_wallow_in_self-pity\" title=\"4. Don't wallow in self-pity\">4. Don't wallow in self-pity<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/when-soulmates-break-up\/#5_Learn_from_the_lesson_of_the_relationship\" title=\"5. Learn from the lesson of the relationship\">5. Learn from the lesson of the relationship<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-8\" href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/when-soulmates-break-up\/#6_Dont_contact_your_ex_until_you_are_ready\" title=\"6. Don't contact your ex until you are ready.\">6. Don't contact your ex until you are ready.<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-9\" href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/when-soulmates-break-up\/#7_Figure_out_why_it_didnt_work_so_you_arent_repeating_history\" title=\"7. Figure out why it didn't work so you aren't repeating history\">7. Figure out why it didn't work so you aren't repeating history<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-10\" href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/when-soulmates-break-up\/#Why_Do_Soulmates_Break_Up\" title=\"Why Do Soulmates Break Up?\">Why Do Soulmates Break Up?<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-11\" href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/when-soulmates-break-up\/#7_Signs_Your_Soulmate_is_About_to_Break_Up_With_You\" title=\"7 Signs Your Soulmate is About to Break Up With You\">7 Signs Your Soulmate is About to Break Up With You<\/a><ul class=\"ez-toc-list-level-3\"><li class=\"ez-toc-heading-level-3\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-12\" href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/when-soulmates-break-up\/#1_Their_eyes_are_cold_and_distant\" title=\"1. Their eyes are cold and distant\">1. Their eyes are cold and distant<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-13\" href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/when-soulmates-break-up\/#2_They_dont_hold_your_hand_anymore\" title=\"2. They don't hold your hand anymore\">2. They don't hold your hand anymore<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-14\" href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/when-soulmates-break-up\/#3_Theyre_not_there_for_you_in_the_way_they_used_to_be\" title=\"3. They're not there for you in the way they used to be\">3. They're not there for you in the way they used to be<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-15\" href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/when-soulmates-break-up\/#4_Your_gut_tells_you_something_is_wrong\" title=\"4. Your gut tells you something is wrong\">4. Your gut tells you something is wrong<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-16\" href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/when-soulmates-break-up\/#5_Theyve_stopped_introducing_you_as_their_%E2%80%9Csoulmate%E2%80%9D\" title=\"5. They've stopped introducing you as their &ldquo;soulmate&rdquo;\">5. They've stopped introducing you as their &ldquo;soulmate&rdquo;<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-17\" href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/when-soulmates-break-up\/#6_They_avoid_making_plans_with_you\" title=\"6. They avoid making plans with you\">6. They avoid making plans with you<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-18\" href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/when-soulmates-break-up\/#7_You_feel_like_youre_walking_on_eggshells_around_them\" title=\"7. You feel like you're walking on eggshells around them\">7. You feel like you're walking on eggshells around them<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-19\" href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/when-soulmates-break-up\/#Can_Soulmates_Get_Back_Together_After_Breaking_Up\" title=\"Can Soulmates Get Back Together After Breaking Up?\">Can Soulmates Get Back Together After Breaking Up?<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h2 class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_Happens_When_Soulmates_Break_Up\"><\/span>What Happens When Soulmates Break Up?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">If you've ever been with someone who was your soulmate, then you know what it feels like to be with them.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">They make you feel complete, they make you feel like you're home.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Unfortunately, there are times when a soulmate is not meant to be.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">This can happen if they don't want to commit or if they have other things going on in their life that prevent them from being with you long term.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">When this happens, it's crucial that you don't let yourself fall into a depression because of this breakup.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">It's important to remember that even though the relationship ended, there will always be people out there who are meant for each other and who will love each other forever.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_to_Do_When_Your_Soulmate_Breaks_Up_With_You\"><\/span>What to Do When Your Soulmate Breaks Up With You?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full eplus-wrapper\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" src=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart.png\" alt=\"When your soulmate breaks up with you\" class=\"wp-image-548248\" srcset=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart.png 560w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-480x270.png 480w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-320x180.png 320w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-335x188.png 335w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-347x195.png 347w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-520x293.png 520w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 560px) 100vw, 560px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"eager\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg'%20viewBox='0%200%20560%20315'%3E%3Crect%20width='560'%20height='315'%20style='fill:%23e3e3e3'\/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\" alt=\"When your soulmate breaks up with you\" class=\"wp-image-548248 eager-load\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 560px) 100vw, 560px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart.png\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-1\" data-src=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart.png.webp\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart.png.webp 560w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-300x169.png.webp 300w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-480x270.png.webp 480w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-320x180.png.webp 320w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-335x188.png.webp 335w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-347x195.png.webp 347w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-520x293.png.webp 520w\" data-svg=\"1\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption><gwmw style=\"display:none;\"><gwmw style=\"display:none;\"><\/gwmw><\/gwmw><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">When your soulmate breaks up with you, it can feel like the end of the world.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">But here's the good news &ndash; you aren't going to die.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">And even though you'll be sad for a while, it's possible to survive this breakup.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">In fact, if you're willing to put in some effort and go through these steps&mdash;and especially if you don't do anything stupid like contact your soulmate&mdash;you may even come out stronger than before!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"1_Allow_yourself_to_feel_pain_and_loss\"><\/span>1. Allow yourself to feel pain and loss<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">It's important to allow yourself to feel the pain and loss. You can't stop the pain, but you can feel it.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">And although there are no magic words that will make the pain go away, there are things you can do to help yourself through it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">You deserve to mourn the loss of your relationship and grieve in whatever way feels right for you.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">It's okay if this means crying over ice cream with a friend or watching a tearjerker movie all by yourself on Netflix until midnight every night for two weeks straight.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Just let yourself do what feels right at this point (even if it seems excessive).&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">You deserve that much!<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center eplus-wrapper eplus-styles-uid-57ab72 wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>RELATED: <a href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/songs-about-soulmates\/\" data-type=\"post\" data-id=\"41681\" data-lasso-id=\"1031572\">Love In Your Heart: 50 Tear-Jerker Songs About Soulmates<\/a><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n<h3 class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"2_Dont_try_to_fix_it\"><\/span>2. Don't try to fix it<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">This can be a tough one, but it is crucial to your healing process.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">You don't want to waste your time trying to &ldquo;fix&rdquo; something that is unfixable and you'll only end up doing more damage in the process.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Don't try to change how they feel or what they think or how they see things, etc.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Let them go on with their life without having any contact with you (except for the occasional message if needed) so that they can figure out what works for them as an individual and not for some misguided attempt at bringing back a relationship that has already ended.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Letting go of someone who has broken up with you can be extremely difficult.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">But it's essential if you want to move forward in life without being weighed down by negative emotions and thoughts about someone who doesn't want anything from you anymore except space!&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">If your soulmate wants nothing else from this breakup but peace of mind, then all you need to do is give them space while also focusing on making yourself happy again!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"3_Take_care_of_yourself\"><\/span>3. Take care of yourself<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">When you're going through a breakup, it's important to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.silkandsonder.com\/blogs\/news\/what-to-do-after-a-breakup-your-self-care-guide\" data-lasso-id=\"1031411\">take care of yourself<\/a>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">This means getting enough sleep, eating well, spending time doing things that make you happy, and being kind to yourself in general.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">You may want to be gentle with yourself as well.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Avoid focusing on how horrible the breakup makes you feel because that can lead to obsessive thinking about your ex or how much you miss them (which will only make things worse).&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">It might sound counterintuitive, but letting go of these negative thoughts and focusing on positive ones will help speed up the healing process.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"4_Dont_wallow_in_self-pity\"><\/span>4. Don't wallow in self-pity<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">You may find yourself feeling like a victim, and that&rsquo;s okay.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">But you need to remember that what happened was not your fault &#8213; and it&rsquo;s important not to let the actions of someone else define who you are as a person.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">You also don't want to blame yourself for things that have nothing to do with this breakup.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">This can include situations from earlier in your relationship, or even from before you were together at all (such as if one or both of your parents divorced when you were young).&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Letting old baggage affect how you feel about yourself now will only hurt more in the long run.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Don't allow this person's actions define yours; don't let them decide what your future looks like either!&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">If they think they're better off without you, then why should that mean anything about who YOU are?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"5_Learn_from_the_lesson_of_the_relationship\"><\/span>5. Learn from the lesson of the relationship<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full eplus-wrapper\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" src=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-1.png\" alt=\"Lesson of the relationship breakup\" class=\"wp-image-548254\" srcset=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-1.png 560w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-1-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-1-480x270.png 480w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-1-320x180.png 320w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-1-335x188.png 335w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-1-347x195.png 347w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-1-520x293.png 520w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 560px) 100vw, 560px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" src=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-1.png.webp\" alt=\"Lesson of the relationship breakup\" class=\"wp-image-548254 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-1.png.webp 560w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-1-300x169.png.webp 300w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-1-480x270.png.webp 480w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-1-320x180.png.webp 320w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-1-335x188.png.webp 335w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-1-347x195.png.webp 347w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-1-520x293.png.webp 520w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 560px) 100vw, 560px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-1.png\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-2\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">You might be tempted to blame yourself, or the other person, or a combination of the two.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">You might feel like your whole world has been turned upside down and you have no idea how things got so out of control.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">But if you&rsquo;re smart, you will take this time as an opportunity for self-reflection.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Don&rsquo;t worry about why it happened&mdash;it could be anything from timing issues to incompatibility issues to serious red flags that both parties overlooked during the initial stages of dating.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">The point is that relationships are messy and complicated, and there are many factors at play when two people decide to pursue one another romantically (or not).&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">What matters most is learning from your mistakes so that next time around you can make better decisions about who gets into your heart and who doesn't get in there at all!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"6_Dont_contact_your_ex_until_you_are_ready\"><\/span>6. Don't contact your ex until you are ready.<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">If your soulmate has broken up with you, you may be feeling a combination of sadness, anger, and confusion.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">You might even feel like the world is ending or that this breakup is the worst thing that could ever happen to a person.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">But there is some good news: It's not!&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">If you are still grieving over this break up and want to talk about how much it hurts you, ask a close friend or family member for help instead of contacting your soulmate.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">You may also want to consider seeing a therapist if you need extra support through this tough time in your life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"7_Figure_out_why_it_didnt_work_so_you_arent_repeating_history\"><\/span>7. Figure out why it didn't work so you aren't repeating history<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">If you're in a relationship that's failing, it's important to figure out why.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Did your partner have some unrealistic expectations? Did they secretly think they could change you?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Was there an issue with the chemistry between the two of you?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Or maybe it was something else entirely that went wrong, like one person not being ready for a serious commitment yet or another person feeling trapped by monogamy because they aren't open to dating anyone else.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">It's also possible that there wasn't anything inherently wrong with the relationship; maybe it just wasn't right for both partners at that time in their lives.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Maybe one person needed more space than their partner was willing or able to give them (or vice versa).&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Or perhaps one person didn't see themselves growing old together&mdash;but neither did their partner!&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Maybe there were bad habits each individual brought into their relationship from previous relationships.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">If so, these habits may have caused problems down the road and led them both astray from what had originally attracted them in the first place: each other's personalities!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Why_Do_Soulmates_Break_Up\"><\/span>Why Do Soulmates Break Up?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full eplus-wrapper\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" src=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-2.png\" alt=\"Wondering why soulmates break up?\" class=\"wp-image-548258\" srcset=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-2.png 560w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-2-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-2-480x270.png 480w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-2-320x180.png 320w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-2-335x188.png 335w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-2-347x195.png 347w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-2-520x293.png 520w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 560px) 100vw, 560px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" src=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-2.png.webp\" alt=\"Wondering why soulmates break up?\" class=\"wp-image-548258 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-2.png.webp 560w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-2-300x169.png.webp 300w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-2-480x270.png.webp 480w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-2-320x180.png.webp 320w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-2-335x188.png.webp 335w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-2-347x195.png.webp 347w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-2-520x293.png.webp 520w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 560px) 100vw, 560px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-2.png\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-3\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption><gwmw style=\"display:none;\"><gwmw style=\"display:none;\"><\/gwmw><\/gwmw><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">There are many reasons for soulmates breaking up, but the most common reason is that they have grown apart over time.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">The relationship may have started out as completely perfect, but over time, things begin to change.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">People change, their needs change and if this happens too quickly, then it's very possible that they will grow apart so much that they no longer see eye-to-eye on anything anymore.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Another reason why soulmates break up is that they get bored with each other.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">This can happen if one person becomes too clingy or if the other person begins to lose interest in the relationship altogether.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Either way, if you find yourself getting bored more often than not when you're around your partner, then this could be an issue worth addressing sooner rather than later.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Lastly, it could be because of wrong timing.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Maybe you simply met the right person <a href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/can-soulmates-meet-at-the-wrong-time\/\" data-type=\"post\" data-id=\"40737\" data-lasso-id=\"1031573\">at the wrong time<\/a>, and you need to trust the Universe to bring your paths back together again when you&rsquo;re both ready.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"7_Signs_Your_Soulmate_is_About_to_Break_Up_With_You\"><\/span>7 Signs Your Soulmate is About to Break Up With You<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Let's be honest, we all want to know when our soulmate is about to break up with us.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">It would save us a lot of time, energy and heartache.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">So we've compiled a list of signs to know for sure when your soulmate wants out.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">If you're worried that your soulmate is about to leave, then check out this list to see if there are any red flag.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"1_Their_eyes_are_cold_and_distant\"><\/span>1. Their eyes are cold and distant<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">If your soulmate is about to break up with you, they will look at you with a strange lack of interest in their eyes.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">They may not even be looking at you at all.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">If they do make eye contact, they will look through you, as if there's nothing but coldness on the other side of their gaze.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">This is the sign that something is most definitely wrong and that your relationship has taken an abrupt turn for the worse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">If your soulmate has lost interest in you and no longer finds value in being around you and interacting with you, then it's likely that they want out of your relationship entirely&mdash;and quickly too!<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center eplus-wrapper eplus-styles-uid-57ab72 wp-block-paragraph\"><em><strong>RELATED: <a href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/when-your-soulmate-leaves-you\/\" data-type=\"post\" data-id=\"40508\" data-lasso-id=\"1031574\">What to Do When Your Soulmate Leaves You (A No BS Guide)<\/a><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n<h3 class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"2_They_dont_hold_your_hand_anymore\"><\/span>2. They don't hold your hand anymore<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">A soulmate is supposed to be your other half, but if you notice that they are starting to distance themselves from you and are no longer holding your hand, this could be a sign.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Holding hands is an act of affection and intimacy between two people who care about each other.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Holding hands can also serve as a way for one partner to make the other feel better when they&rsquo;re upset or sad.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">If they are distancing themselves from you emotionally, it may be because they don&rsquo;t want to hold your hand anymore, which would indicate that their feelings have changed for you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"3_Theyre_not_there_for_you_in_the_way_they_used_to_be\"><\/span>3. They're not there for you in the way they used to be<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full eplus-wrapper\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" src=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-3.png\" alt=\"Sad soulmates after a breakup\" class=\"wp-image-548264\" srcset=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-3.png 560w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-3-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-3-480x270.png 480w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-3-320x180.png 320w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-3-335x188.png 335w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-3-347x195.png 347w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-3-520x293.png 520w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 560px) 100vw, 560px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" src=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-3.png.webp\" alt=\"Sad soulmates after a breakup\" class=\"wp-image-548264 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-3.png.webp 560w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-3-300x169.png.webp 300w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-3-480x270.png.webp 480w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-3-320x180.png.webp 320w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-3-335x188.png.webp 335w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-3-347x195.png.webp 347w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-3-520x293.png.webp 520w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 560px) 100vw, 560px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-3.png\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-4\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption><gwmw style=\"display:none;\"><gwmw style=\"display:none;\"><\/gwmw><\/gwmw><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">If they're not there for you in the way they used to be, it's a sign that your soulmate is about to break up with you.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Your soulmate should make you feel like the most important person in their world.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">They should always want to know about your day and your future plans.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">The same goes for asking about any part of your life: family, friends&mdash;anything!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">If this isn't happening anymore, it's time for an intervention before things get really bad between the two of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"4_Your_gut_tells_you_something_is_wrong\"><\/span>4. Your gut tells you something is wrong<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Whether it&rsquo;s a feeling of dread or unease, you just know that everything isn&rsquo;t right.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">When they text you or call, you feel the urge to make an excuse and get off the phone as quickly as possible.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">You may even find yourself short with them when they speak to you &mdash; slamming doors and hastily hanging up before they can say their piece.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">You are afraid to ask them what is wrong because deep down inside, there&rsquo;s a part of yourself that already knows the answer.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">But even though your heart knows this, your head refuses to accept it until it happens&mdash;and by then it might be too late for both parties involved!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"5_Theyve_stopped_introducing_you_as_their_%E2%80%9Csoulmate%E2%80%9D\"><\/span>5. They've stopped introducing you as their &ldquo;soulmate&rdquo;<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">This is the biggest sign that your relationship isn't going to last. It might seem obvious, but when it comes to soulmates, every little detail counts.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">When someone suddenly stops calling you their soulmate, or if they start using another word for you, that's a big red flag.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">The reason why this happens is they're no longer in love with you and are trying to let go of the idea of being with someone else in order to move on with their life without feeling guilty about it (or without having anything left over from your relationship).<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center eplus-wrapper eplus-styles-uid-57ab72 wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>RELATED: <a href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/when-soulmates-are-apart\/\" data-type=\"post\" data-id=\"544987\" data-lasso-id=\"1031575\">What Happens When Soulmates Are Apart? + Do They Reunite?<\/a><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n<h3 class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"6_They_avoid_making_plans_with_you\"><\/span>6. They avoid making plans with you<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">One of the most telling signs is if your soulmate suddenly stops making plans with you.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Instead of enjoying time together, they are constantly busy with other things.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Even if it's something as simple as going out to dinner and a movie together, they've got an excuse for why they can't do it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Another tell-tale sign is when they stop wanting to see you or be around you at all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">When this happens, it often means that their feelings have changed&mdash;and it's not in a good way!&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">If this starts happening regularly, then there's no doubt about what's going on.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">They're breaking up with you without saying so outright because there's no other way for them to get out of seeing you anymore without hurting your feelings too much (or theirs).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"7_You_feel_like_youre_walking_on_eggshells_around_them\"><\/span>7. You feel like you're walking on eggshells around them<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">When you feel like you&rsquo;re walking on eggshells around your soulmate, it&rsquo;s a clear sign that something is amiss.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">They may be acting differently than normal or they could just be in a bad mood.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">In either case, if they don&rsquo;t trust you enough to share what&rsquo;s going on with them, it means that their relationship with you isn&rsquo;t where it should be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">If your soulmate starts acting strangely when they talk about their exes or past relationships, this could also be an indication that something is wrong between the two of you as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Can_Soulmates_Get_Back_Together_After_Breaking_Up\"><\/span>Can Soulmates Get Back Together After Breaking Up?<gwmw style=\"display:none;\"><gwmw style=\"display:none;\"><\/gwmw><\/gwmw><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full eplus-wrapper\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" src=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-4.png\" alt=\"Soulmates getting back together after breaking up\" class=\"wp-image-548270\" srcset=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-4.png 560w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-4-300x169.png 300w, 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together after breaking up\" class=\"wp-image-548270 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-4.png.webp 560w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-4-300x169.png.webp 300w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-4-480x270.png.webp 480w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-4-320x180.png.webp 320w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-4-335x188.png.webp 335w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-4-347x195.png.webp 347w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-4-520x293.png.webp 520w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 560px) 100vw, 560px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/When-Soulmates-Break-Up-A-Guide-To-Mending-The-Heart-4.png\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-5\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption><gwmw style=\"display:none;\"><gwmw style=\"display:none;\"><\/gwmw><\/gwmw><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Soulmates can get back together after breaking up.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Although this may sound like a strange idea, there are many cases where <a href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/soulmate-reunion-signs\/\" data-type=\"post\" data-id=\"545004\" data-lasso-id=\"1031576\">soulmates have reunited after a breakup<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">The first thing that you need to understand about soulmates is that they are not perfect for each other.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">There are no perfect people in the world and if you believe that your partner is perfect, then you need to rethink your relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Soulmates come together because they complement each other perfectly.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">They help each other to grow and become better individuals.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">However, this does not mean that they will always be happy together. 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