{"id":40508,"date":"2022-08-15T08:17:35","date_gmt":"2022-08-15T08:17:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/gator4138.temp.domains\/~seocloud\/website_bd55b9c6\/?p=40508"},"modified":"2023-05-19T09:19:09","modified_gmt":"2023-05-19T09:19:09","slug":"when-your-soulmate-leaves-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/when-your-soulmate-leaves-you\/","title":{"rendered":"What to Do When Your Soulmate Leaves You (A No BS Guide)"},"content":{"rendered":"<style>img#mv-trellis-img-1::before{padding-top:56.25%; }img#mv-trellis-img-1{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-2::before{padding-top:56.25%; }img#mv-trellis-img-2{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-3::before{padding-top:56.25%; }img#mv-trellis-img-3{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-4::before{padding-top:56.25%; }img#mv-trellis-img-4{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-5::before{padding-top:56.25%; }img#mv-trellis-img-5{display:block;}<\/style>\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">It can seemingly take forever to find that perfect someone to complete you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When you do find your soulmate, there is a sensation that you have found that perfect someone. Then, all of a sudden, they leave you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Now, you feel like this is the end of your world and that you won't be able to move on. You have lost the love of your life, and you don't know what to do or how to react.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">But, one thing you need to remember is just because it is a <a href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/stages-of-a-soulmate-relationship\/\" data-lasso-id=\"1029655\">soulmate relationship<\/a>, it doesn't guarantee that the relationship is going to last forever. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">It also doesn't mean that you will never be happy again, even though it may feel that way right now.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Now is the time to pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start working on getting your life back together. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Today we are going to take a look at what to do when your soulmate leaves you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Let's get started.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_64 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title \">Table of Contents<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseprofile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class=\"ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 eztoc-toggle-hide-by-default\"><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/when-your-soulmate-leaves-you\/#What_To_Do_When_Your_Soulmate_Leaves_You\" title=\"What To Do When Your Soulmate Leaves You?\">What To Do When Your Soulmate Leaves You?<\/a><ul class=\"ez-toc-list-level-3\"><li class=\"ez-toc-heading-level-3\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/when-your-soulmate-leaves-you\/#1_Give_Yourself_Time_to_Grieve\" title=\"#1. Give Yourself Time to Grieve\">#1. Give Yourself Time to Grieve<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/when-your-soulmate-leaves-you\/#2_Accept_that_They_are_Gone\" title=\"#2. Accept that They are Gone\">#2. Accept that They are Gone<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/when-your-soulmate-leaves-you\/#3_Dont_Deny_Your_Feelings\" title=\"#3. Don't Deny Your Feelings.\">#3. Don't Deny Your Feelings.<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/when-your-soulmate-leaves-you\/#4_Think_about_What_You_Think_About\" title=\"#4. Think about What You Think About\">#4. Think about What You Think About<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/when-your-soulmate-leaves-you\/#5_Be_Careful_in_Your_Actions\" title=\"#5. Be Careful in Your Actions\">#5. Be Careful in Your Actions<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/when-your-soulmate-leaves-you\/#6_Reconnect_with_Yourself_and_Your_Loved_Ones\" title=\"#6. Reconnect with Yourself and Your Loved Ones\">#6. Reconnect with Yourself and Your Loved Ones<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-8\" href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/when-your-soulmate-leaves-you\/#7_Get_Physical\" title=\"#7. Get Physical\">#7. Get Physical<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-9\" href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/when-your-soulmate-leaves-you\/#8_Eliminate_Reminders_of_the_Past\" title=\"#8. Eliminate Reminders of the Past\">#8. Eliminate Reminders of the Past<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-10\" href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/when-your-soulmate-leaves-you\/#9_Call_on_Your_Support_System\" title=\"#9. Call on Your Support System\">#9. Call on Your Support System<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-11\" href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/when-your-soulmate-leaves-you\/#10_Learn_What_You_Really_Want_in_Your_Next_Relationship\" title=\"#10. Learn What You Really Want in Your Next Relationship\">#10. Learn What You Really Want in Your Next Relationship<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-12\" href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/when-your-soulmate-leaves-you\/#11_Be_Open_to_New_Love_Interests\" title=\"#11. Be Open to New Love Interests\">#11. Be Open to New Love Interests<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-13\" href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/when-your-soulmate-leaves-you\/#12_Dont_Play_the_Blame_Game\" title=\"#12. Don't Play the Blame Game.\">#12. Don't Play the Blame Game.<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-14\" href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/when-your-soulmate-leaves-you\/#13_Make_Time_to_Help_Others\" title=\"#13. Make Time to Help Others\">#13. Make Time to Help Others<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-15\" href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/when-your-soulmate-leaves-you\/#Conclusion\" title=\"Conclusion\">Conclusion<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h2 class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_To_Do_When_Your_Soulmate_Leaves_You\"><\/span><strong>What To Do When Your Soulmate Leaves You?<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full eplus-wrapper\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" src=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/How-Many-Soulmates-Can-You-Have-A-No-BS-Guide-7.png\" alt=\"Woman wondering what to do if your soulmate leaves you\" class=\"wp-image-40611\" srcset=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/How-Many-Soulmates-Can-You-Have-A-No-BS-Guide-7.png 560w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/How-Many-Soulmates-Can-You-Have-A-No-BS-Guide-7-300x169.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 560px) 100vw, 560px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"eager\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg'%20viewBox='0%200%20560%20315'%3E%3Crect%20width='560'%20height='315'%20style='fill:%23e3e3e3'\/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\" alt=\"Woman wondering what to do if your soulmate leaves you\" class=\"wp-image-40611 eager-load\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 560px) 100vw, 560px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/How-Many-Soulmates-Can-You-Have-A-No-BS-Guide-7.png\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-1\" data-src=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/How-Many-Soulmates-Can-You-Have-A-No-BS-Guide-7.png.webp\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/How-Many-Soulmates-Can-You-Have-A-No-BS-Guide-7.png.webp 560w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/How-Many-Soulmates-Can-You-Have-A-No-BS-Guide-7-300x169.png.webp 300w\" data-svg=\"1\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">If you are wondering what to do when your soulmate pulls away from you, it may be that your mind is going off in all different directions. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">One minute, you may be crying your eyes out, and the next, you may be trying to figure out how to rekindle the relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Your feelings are going to be all over the place right now, and that's okay. But you can't let this overwhelm you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">There are steps you can take in order to move on from your soulmate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\"><em>&#10084;&#65039;<strong> <\/strong>Related:&nbsp;<a data-lasso-id=\"29481\" href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/how-to-get-over-your-soulmate\/\">How To Get Over Your Soulmate (Even When It Doesn&rsquo;t Feel Possible)<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"1_Give_Yourself_Time_to_Grieve\"><\/span><strong>#1. Give Yourself Time to Grieve<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Losing a soulmate can feel like a death in the family, and you need to allow yourself to grieve before you can really move on properly. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">But, this doesn't mean that you should sit around and grieve for the rest of your life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Everyone grieves differently, and it takes more time for some to get over the loss of a soulmate than it does for others. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">This doesn't mean that you should sit around and grieve forever. Obviously, there is no time limit for grief, but at the same time, it shouldn't take over your life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Give yourself a week or two to process what has happened and deal with it. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Take this time to deal with the heartache and let go of what will never be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">We're not saying that the pain will be completely gone after this time. But, you do need to get back out into the world and continue living your life, with or without your soulmate. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">The sooner you can deal with the pain of losing your soulmate, the sooner you can begin your search for the right soulmate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"2_Accept_that_They_are_Gone\"><\/span><strong>#2<\/strong>. <strong>Accept that They are Gone<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Everything happens for a reason, and we need to<a href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/when-your-soulmate-doesnt-want-you\/\" data-lasso-id=\"26174\"> accept things as they happen<\/a>. This includes breaking up with your soulmate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">This person has decided they no longer want to be in a relationship with you. But, it isn't the end of the world, and you need to accept that there will be some pretty big changes in your life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">The sooner you are able to accept the breakup and move on, the sooner you will be able to deal with your emotions and get on with your life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"3_Dont_Deny_Your_Feelings\"><\/span><strong>#3<\/strong>. <strong>Don't Deny Your Feelings.<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full eplus-wrapper\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" src=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/How-Many-Soulmates-Can-You-Have-A-No-BS-Guide-8.png\" alt=\"How to get over your soulmate\" class=\"wp-image-40613\" srcset=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/How-Many-Soulmates-Can-You-Have-A-No-BS-Guide-8.png 560w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/How-Many-Soulmates-Can-You-Have-A-No-BS-Guide-8-300x169.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 560px) 100vw, 560px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" src=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/How-Many-Soulmates-Can-You-Have-A-No-BS-Guide-8.png.webp\" alt=\"How to get over your soulmate\" class=\"wp-image-40613 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/How-Many-Soulmates-Can-You-Have-A-No-BS-Guide-8.png.webp 560w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/How-Many-Soulmates-Can-You-Have-A-No-BS-Guide-8-300x169.png.webp 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 560px) 100vw, 560px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/How-Many-Soulmates-Can-You-Have-A-No-BS-Guide-8.png\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-2\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">There is no right or wrong when it comes to your feelings. You feel what you feel, and that's just how it is. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">The important thing is that you allow yourself to feel, period.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Letting yourself have feelings is all part of the grieving process, and it is something that you need to do. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Some people may tell you that your feelings are wrong or that you shouldn't be feeling the way you are feeling.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Remember, if you don't deal with your feelings now, there will always be unresolved issues that will be at the back of your mind. So, instead of denying your feelings, let them happen. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">There are bound to be feelings of anger, resentment, and deep hurt after losing a soulmate. Let yourself feel these feelings.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">But, don't just feel these feelings. Take notice of the things you are feeling, and name those feelings. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Over time, you will notice that they change, and you won't feel these things quite so intensely after a while.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"4_Think_about_What_You_Think_About\"><\/span><strong>#4<\/strong>. <strong>Think about What You Think About<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">When your soulmate leaves you, it can be difficult to think about anything else besides that relationship. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">You may be wondering what you did wrong or what you could have done to make them stay.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">It is very likely that this person is going to continue entering into your thoughts for some time after the breakup. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">This is only natural, but at the same time, thinking about your former soulmate is going to hurt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Now is the time to take a good, hard look at your thoughts and figure out other things to think about when your mind drifts to your former soulmate. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">It is often recommended that you create a list of things to think about besides this relationship that is no longer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">This list can include anything that makes you feel good. For instance, you may want to turn your mind to set new career goals. Basically, try to think about the things that will make you truly happy in this life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">The more you can do this, the less you will find yourself pining over a lost love, and the sooner you will be able to move on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"5_Be_Careful_in_Your_Actions\"><\/span><strong>#5<\/strong>. <strong>Be Careful in Your Actions<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">While it is pretty much impossible to choose which feelings you have, especially when your soulmate leaves you, it is important to be careful in how you act on those feelings. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">You really need to think about your feelings before acting on them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">It can be quite difficult to make the right choices when you are listening to your heart and not your mind. Feelings can be quite overwhelming, and it is <a href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/taking-a-step-back-quotes\/\">important that you take a step back<\/a> before acting.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Give yourself enough time to deal with your feelings before you take any sort of action. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Don't be too quick to make important decisions at this time because your feelings may cloud your ability to make the right decisions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"6_Reconnect_with_Yourself_and_Your_Loved_Ones\"><\/span><strong>#6<\/strong>. <strong>Reconnect with Yourself and Your Loved Ones<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full eplus-wrapper\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" src=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/How-Many-Soulmates-Can-You-Have-A-No-BS-Guide-9.png\" alt=\"What to do when your soulmate pulls away\" class=\"wp-image-40615\" srcset=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/How-Many-Soulmates-Can-You-Have-A-No-BS-Guide-9.png 560w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/How-Many-Soulmates-Can-You-Have-A-No-BS-Guide-9-300x169.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 560px) 100vw, 560px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" src=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/How-Many-Soulmates-Can-You-Have-A-No-BS-Guide-9.png.webp\" alt=\"What to do when your soulmate pulls away\" class=\"wp-image-40615 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/How-Many-Soulmates-Can-You-Have-A-No-BS-Guide-9.png.webp 560w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/How-Many-Soulmates-Can-You-Have-A-No-BS-Guide-9-300x169.png.webp 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 560px) 100vw, 560px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/How-Many-Soulmates-Can-You-Have-A-No-BS-Guide-9.png\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-3\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Right now, you may be feeling overwhelmed and completely alone. Rather than letting this get you down, use it as a chance to reconnect with yourself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Don't worry about being alone because you are never truly alone. You just need to learn how to live without your soulmate in your life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Now is the time to learn more about yourself and figure out what you want out of life. This is a great opportunity for some self-awareness and self-improvement.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">You also have another great opportunity available to you right now, and that is being able to reconnect with your loved ones.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\"> When we are in romantic relationships, we often tend to spend less time with family and friends. Now is your chance to re-forge those connections.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"7_Get_Physical\"><\/span><strong>#7<\/strong>. <strong>Get Physical<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Never underestimate the <a data-lasso-id=\"29482\" href=\"https:\/\/www.helpguide.org\/articles\/healthy-living\/the-mental-health-benefits-of-exercise.htm\">power of physical activity<\/a>, especially when you are trying to figure out how to get over your soulmate. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">If you already exercise regularly, now may be the time to take it to the next level.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">If you haven't been much into exercise, it is time to start. Not only is exercise good for your body, but it's also good for your mind.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Doing physical activity of any sort is going to help to improve your mood. It will increase serotonin levels, which will balance the chemistry in your brain.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">You will begin to feel happier; the more you exercise, the happier you will feel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">It won't be long before you are looking forward to a bright future rather than dwelling on the past.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"8_Eliminate_Reminders_of_the_Past\"><\/span><strong>#8. Eliminate Reminders of the Past<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">You may seem to see something that reminds you of your former soulmate everywhere you look. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">When wondering how you move on from your soulmate, know that you need to get rid of these reminders.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Chances are, there are little reminders all over your home, including gifts from this person, items they left behind, etc. Get rid of all of this stuff now!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Take all of these items, sell them, or donate them to charity. Not only will you be getting rid of the reminders of your former soulmate, but you will also be helping others by giving them things that they need.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">In addition to getting rid of things, it is also a good <a href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/spiritual-morning-routine\/\" data-lasso-id=\"29483\">idea to start changing your routines<\/a>. Maybe you and your ex often went to a particular restaurant. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Start going to a different restaurant. Basically, take steps to change patterns and try new activities.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Once you start creating a new life without your former soulmate, you will find that you are happy and content. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">But, if you keep these constant reminders around, there is no way that you are going to be able to move on with your life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\"><em>&#10084;&#65039; Related: <a href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/can-soulmates-feel-each-other-when-apart\/\" data-type=\"post\" data-id=\"43491\" data-lasso-id=\"1030840\">Answered: Can Soulmates Truly Feel Each Other When Apart?<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"9_Call_on_Your_Support_System\"><\/span><strong>#9.<\/strong> <strong>Call on Your Support System<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full eplus-wrapper\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" src=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/How-Many-Soulmates-Can-You-Have-A-No-BS-Guide-10.png\" alt=\"Group of friends laughing \" class=\"wp-image-40618\" srcset=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/How-Many-Soulmates-Can-You-Have-A-No-BS-Guide-10.png 560w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/How-Many-Soulmates-Can-You-Have-A-No-BS-Guide-10-300x169.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 560px) 100vw, 560px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" src=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/How-Many-Soulmates-Can-You-Have-A-No-BS-Guide-10.png.webp\" alt=\"Group of friends laughing \" class=\"wp-image-40618 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/How-Many-Soulmates-Can-You-Have-A-No-BS-Guide-10.png.webp 560w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/How-Many-Soulmates-Can-You-Have-A-No-BS-Guide-10-300x169.png.webp 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 560px) 100vw, 560px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/How-Many-Soulmates-Can-You-Have-A-No-BS-Guide-10.png\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-4\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">You have many people in your life who love and support you. You need to turn to these people at this time in your life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">You may feel an intense need to seek help from the very person you are trying to get over. Do not give into this need. If you want to get back together, let them know this, but don't rely on them for emotional support now. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Remember, what will be, will be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Look for support from your friends and family members instead. If there is no one you feel you can talk to, it may be a good idea to seek out a counselor to help you deal with your emotions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"10_Learn_What_You_Really_Want_in_Your_Next_Relationship\"><\/span><strong>#10<\/strong>. <strong>Learn What You Really Want in Your Next Relationship<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">You may have thought you were in the perfect relationship and had everything you needed in a relationship. But, you also need to remember that you are not the same person today as you were yesterday. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Believe it or not, this could be one of the best things ever happening to you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Now is an excellent opportunity to sit down and think about what you really want in your next relationship. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">This is important if you want to be able to move on with your life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">When you step back and see the relationship for what it was, you will see the flaws you didn't see while you thought you were so much in love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Then, you can look at the things you did and didn't like about the relationship and learn from them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"11_Be_Open_to_New_Love_Interests\"><\/span><strong>#11.<\/strong> <strong>Be Open to New Love Interests<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">While it is likely going to take a bit of time before you are ready to jump into a new romantic relationship, don't close yourself off to the idea altogether. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">You never know when you are going to meet that special someone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Obviously, you do need to give yourself enough time to completely get over the feelings you have when your soulmate leaves you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">But, as we have already mentioned, you can't dwell on the past forever. There comes the point where you simply must move on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\"><em>&#10084;&#65039; Related: <a href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/when-your-soulmate-isnt-ready\/\" data-type=\"post\" data-id=\"42213\" data-lasso-id=\"1029718\">When Your Soulmate Isn&rsquo;t Ready (What To Do If This Is You)<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"12_Dont_Play_the_Blame_Game\"><\/span><strong>#12.<\/strong> <strong>Don't Play the Blame Game.<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">In the beginning, chances are you are going to be tempted to play the blame game. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">When wondering how you move on from your soulmate, it is important to remember that there are three sides to every story: yours, theirs, and the truth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Yes, you will be hurt and angry and want to understand what happened. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">But, it is important that you do not assign blame because this will create more tension than it alleviates. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">You both had a role to play within the relationship, and you both have made mistakes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">It is time to think about your role and mistakes and learn from them. Don't let this breakup close your mind to new opportunities.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">When you lock yourself into a certain way of thinking, it can actually be quite detrimental to your overall mental well-being. You won't be open to new ideas or opportunities, and you will never be able to see things for what they truly are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"13_Make_Time_to_Help_Others\"><\/span><strong>#13.<\/strong> <strong>Make Time to Help Others<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full eplus-wrapper\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" src=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/How-Many-Soulmates-Can-You-Have-A-No-BS-Guide-11.png\" alt=\"Woman helping an elderly\" class=\"wp-image-40621\" srcset=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/How-Many-Soulmates-Can-You-Have-A-No-BS-Guide-11.png 560w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/How-Many-Soulmates-Can-You-Have-A-No-BS-Guide-11-300x169.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 560px) 100vw, 560px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" src=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/How-Many-Soulmates-Can-You-Have-A-No-BS-Guide-11.png.webp\" alt=\"Woman helping an elderly\" class=\"wp-image-40621 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/How-Many-Soulmates-Can-You-Have-A-No-BS-Guide-11.png.webp 560w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/How-Many-Soulmates-Can-You-Have-A-No-BS-Guide-11-300x169.png.webp 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 560px) 100vw, 560px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/How-Many-Soulmates-Can-You-Have-A-No-BS-Guide-11.png\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-5\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">You might be surprised to learn that helping others is a great way to help yourself overcome the loss of a soulmate. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Now, you may be wondering how you can help others when you can't even help yourself right now.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Studies have shown that helping others who are suffering can often help us resolve our own pain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">You will be sharing in their pain, and it will seem as though your own pain has diminished.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">It will also help because you will be doing something that makes you feel good about yourself. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">You may even find that you learned many new things about yourself and picked up a few new coping skills.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Conclusion\"><\/span><strong>Conclusion<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">While breakups are painful, they also lead to new opportunities. Your life can now reset, and you can set about beginning anew.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">Get out there and start doing the things you used to do before entering into a relationship with the person you thought was your soulmate. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\">You will be a much better version of yourself, and you will find that you are able to move on and find another soulmate to share your life with.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-paragraph\"><em>&#10084;&#65039; Related Reading:<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n<ul class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-list eplus-styles-uid-e44c0b\"><li><em><a href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/can-a-soulmate-cheat-on-you\/\" data-lasso-id=\"29484\">Can A Soulmate Cheat On You? A Guide To Soulmate Betrayal<\/a><\/em><\/li><li><em><a href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/when-your-soulmate-doesnt-want-you\/\" data-lasso-id=\"29485\">What To Do When A Soulmate Doesn&rsquo;t Want you? 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