{"id":2200,"date":"2020-01-17T08:27:17","date_gmt":"2020-01-17T08:27:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/gator4138.temp.domains\/~seocloud\/website_bd55b9c6\/?p=2200"},"modified":"2023-12-14T08:39:16","modified_gmt":"2023-12-14T08:39:16","slug":"introvert-misconceptions","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/introvert-misconceptions\/","title":{"rendered":"11 BIG Misconceptions About Being an Introvert"},"content":{"rendered":"<style>img#mv-trellis-img-1::before{padding-top:63.96484375%; }img#mv-trellis-img-1{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-2::before{padding-top:63.96484375%; }img#mv-trellis-img-2{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-3::before{padding-top:63.96484375%; }img#mv-trellis-img-3{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-4::before{padding-top:63.96484375%; }img#mv-trellis-img-4{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-5::before{padding-top:63.96484375%; }img#mv-trellis-img-5{display:block;}<\/style>\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">It is estimated that in the USA introverts make up around <a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Extraversion_and_introversion\" data-lasso-id=\"742\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">3<em>5-50% of the population. <\/em><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Characterized by focusing on internal feelings over external stimuli, at a simplistic level introverts are the opposite of extroverts. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">It is worth mentioning, however, that <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">very few people are truly simply introverts or extroverts<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Many of us float <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">between the two<\/span>. And cannot be so easily labeled. Even though we often have a bias towards either one classification or the other. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">I myself have been termed by friends as the &lsquo;<em>most <\/em><\/span><em><a class=\"\" data-lasso-id=\"743\" href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/traits-of-an-extrovert\/\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">extroverted<\/span><\/a><\/em><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><em> introvert<\/em>&rsquo;: for short periods I can be the life and soul of the party, before retreating back to the sidelines.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">All this got me thinking about what is truly like to be an introvert compared to what people think introversion is. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">So in this article I&rsquo;ve decided to explore and address once and for all the big misconceptions people have about <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">what it means to be an introvert.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_64 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title \">Table of Contents<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" 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class=\"ez-toc-heading-level-3\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/introvert-misconceptions\/#Misconception_1_Introverts_are_Anti-Social\" title=\"Misconception #1: Introverts are Anti-Social\">Misconception #1: Introverts are Anti-Social<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/introvert-misconceptions\/#Misconception_2_Introverts_dont_go_to_Events\" title=\"Misconception #2: Introverts don&rsquo;t go to Events\">Misconception #2: Introverts don&rsquo;t go to Events<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/introvert-misconceptions\/#Misconception_3_Introverts_are_Loners\" title=\"Misconception #3: Introverts are Loners\">Misconception #3: Introverts are Loners<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/introvert-misconceptions\/#Misconception_4_Introverts_are_just_shy\" title=\"Misconception #4: Introverts are just shy\">Misconception #4: Introverts are just shy<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/introvert-misconceptions\/#Misconception_5_Introverts_have_their_Head_in_the_Clouds\" title=\"Misconception #5: Introverts have their Head in the Clouds\">Misconception #5: Introverts have their Head in the Clouds<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/introvert-misconceptions\/#Misconception_6_Introverts_Avoid_getting_%E2%80%98Stuck-in\" title=\"Misconception #6: Introverts Avoid getting &lsquo;Stuck-in&rsquo;\">Misconception #6: Introverts Avoid getting &lsquo;Stuck-in&rsquo;<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-8\" href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/introvert-misconceptions\/#Misconception_7_Introverts_are_Dull\" title=\"Misconception #7: Introverts are Dull\">Misconception #7: Introverts are Dull<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-9\" href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/introvert-misconceptions\/#Misconception_8_Introverts_are_the_Weak_Link_in_Group_Work\" title=\"Misconception #8: Introverts are the Weak Link in Group Work\">Misconception #8: Introverts are the Weak Link in Group Work<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-10\" href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/introvert-misconceptions\/#Misconception_9_Introverts_and_Extroverts_Dont_Get_Along\" title=\"Misconception #9: Introverts and Extroverts Don&rsquo;t Get Along\">Misconception #9: Introverts and Extroverts Don&rsquo;t Get Along<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-11\" href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/introvert-misconceptions\/#Misconception_10_Introverts_are_Pushovers\" title=\"Misconception #10: Introverts are Pushovers\">Misconception #10: Introverts are Pushovers<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-12\" href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/introvert-misconceptions\/#Misconception_11_Being_introverted_is_a_Bad_Thing\" title=\"Misconception #11: Being introverted is a Bad Thing\">Misconception #11: Being introverted is a Bad Thing<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h2 class=\" wp-block-heading eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"11_Big_Misconceptions_About_Being_An_Introvert\"><\/span>11 Big Misconceptions About Being An Introvert<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"p4 wp-block-heading eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Misconception_1_Introverts_are_Anti-Social\"><\/span><strong>Misconception #1: Introverts are Anti-Social<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">This couldn&rsquo;t be further from the truth! <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><em>Introverts<\/em> simply <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">gain their energy from time alone<\/span> and periods of introspection.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><em>Extroverts<\/em>, in contrast, <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">gain their energy from social settings<\/span>&nbsp;and interactions with others. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>This means that, for introverts, being at social occasions can sometimes be a drain upon energy reserves.<\/strong> <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">It is important to mention that <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">this doesn&rsquo;t mean<\/span> that introverts don&rsquo;t enjoy events and socializing, simply that there may be a shorter time span as to how long this enjoyment lasts before peace and quiet are needed.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">I for sure have experienced this myself! <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">I find I&rsquo;m excitable at first at events and enjoy having a dance or a chat, but as the night goes on, <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">I find myself drawn to the quieter spots<\/span> with a nice drink. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">I&rsquo;m still content to watch the revelry, but no longer wish to be front and center. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Sometimes after a little time to catch my breath I find I am able to rejoin the fray, whereas other times I&rsquo;m done for the day. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">When this happens <em>introverts<\/em> tend to <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">need time to recharge by spending time alone or in a quieter space.&nbsp;<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"p4 wp-block-heading eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Misconception_2_Introverts_dont_go_to_Events\"><\/span><strong>Misconception #2: Introverts don&rsquo;t go to Events<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\" wp-block-image size-large eplus-wrapper\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"655\" src=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Misconceptions-About-Being-an-Introvert-1024x655.jpg\" alt=\"Introvert misconception #2\" class=\"wp-image-554391\" srcset=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Misconceptions-About-Being-an-Introvert-1024x655.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Misconceptions-About-Being-an-Introvert-300x192.jpg 300w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Misconceptions-About-Being-an-Introvert-768x492.jpg 768w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Misconceptions-About-Being-an-Introvert-960x614.jpg 960w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Misconceptions-About-Being-an-Introvert-1080x691.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Misconceptions-About-Being-an-Introvert.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 24px), 720px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"eager\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"655\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg'%20viewBox='0%200%201024%20655'%3E%3Crect%20width='1024'%20height='655'%20style='fill:%23e3e3e3'\/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\" alt=\"Introvert misconception #2\" class=\"wp-image-554391 eager-load\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 24px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Misconceptions-About-Being-an-Introvert.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-1\" data-src=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Misconceptions-About-Being-an-Introvert-1024x655.jpg.webp\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Misconceptions-About-Being-an-Introvert-1024x655.jpg.webp 1024w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Misconceptions-About-Being-an-Introvert-300x192.jpg.webp 300w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Misconceptions-About-Being-an-Introvert-768x492.jpg.webp 768w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Misconceptions-About-Being-an-Introvert-960x614.jpg.webp 960w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Misconceptions-About-Being-an-Introvert-1080x691.jpg.webp 1080w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Misconceptions-About-Being-an-Introvert.jpg.webp 1200w\" data-svg=\"1\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\" eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Introverts love to party too! <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">We just have a <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">slightly different way of doing things<\/span> that can make predominant extroverts view us as unwilling or a party pooper. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Remember, unlike extroverts, <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">introverts don&rsquo;t gain energy from social situations. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Therefore a day or an evening of interaction and a barrage of stimuli can have us itching for the exit to recharge.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>However, this doesn&rsquo;t mean that introverts don&rsquo;t like to let their hair down!<\/strong> <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">They just might not stay until the early hours of the morning, or may need to retreat to the sidelines occasionally to recoup their energy reserves. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Because of this, it is also true that <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/famous-introverts\/\" data-lasso-id=\"744\">introverts<\/a> typically prefer social gatherings with a small group of close friends. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">However don&rsquo;t think this doesn&rsquo;t mean you won&rsquo;t occasionally see us throwing cringe-worthy shapes on the dance floor at a wedding!<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"p4 wp-block-heading eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Misconception_3_Introverts_are_Loners\"><\/span><strong>Misconception #3: Introverts are Loners<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">It&rsquo;s no lie that for many <em>introverts<\/em> the perfect time <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">is an afternoon alone with a good book, or a solo hobby of their choice. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">This time to just &lsquo;be&rsquo; is when introverts can recharge and get energized for future social interactions and events. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">This time is also often used for <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">personal growth<\/span>, as by reflecting on previous events introverts can often gain <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">valuable insights<\/span>, which they can use to <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">improve themselves.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>This doesn&rsquo;t mean that introverts prefer being constantly alone, in fact, quite the contrary.<\/strong> <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">I find I get quite low if I&rsquo;m overly starved of others company, as do many other introverts. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">The only difference between an <a href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/extroverted-introvert-signs\/\">introvert and an extrovert<\/a> is that after this period of company we may need to be alone a while to decompress and review the day&rsquo;s events and interactions. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Put simply, we struggle to be &lsquo;go-go-go&rsquo; all the time, and sometimes just need to sit back and watch the show.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"p4 wp-block-heading eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Misconception_4_Introverts_are_just_shy\"><\/span><strong>Misconception #4: Introverts are just shy<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\" wp-block-image size-large eplus-wrapper\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"655\" src=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Introvert-misconception-of-being-shy-1-1024x655.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-554393\" srcset=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Introvert-misconception-of-being-shy-1-1024x655.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Introvert-misconception-of-being-shy-1-300x192.jpg 300w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Introvert-misconception-of-being-shy-1-768x492.jpg 768w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Introvert-misconception-of-being-shy-1-960x614.jpg 960w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Introvert-misconception-of-being-shy-1-1080x691.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Introvert-misconception-of-being-shy-1.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 24px), 720px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"655\" src=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Introvert-misconception-of-being-shy-1-1024x655.jpg.webp\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-554393 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Introvert-misconception-of-being-shy-1-1024x655.jpg.webp 1024w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Introvert-misconception-of-being-shy-1-300x192.jpg.webp 300w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Introvert-misconception-of-being-shy-1-768x492.jpg.webp 768w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Introvert-misconception-of-being-shy-1-960x614.jpg.webp 960w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Introvert-misconception-of-being-shy-1-1080x691.jpg.webp 1080w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Introvert-misconception-of-being-shy-1.jpg.webp 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 24px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Introvert-misconception-of-being-shy-1.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-2\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Shyness and introversion are terms that are often wrongly used interchangeably. Though there are many introverts who are also shy, <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">it is not a prerequisite. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Instead, <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">introverts tend to be more reserved<\/span> and play things closer to their chests, which means <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">getting to know an introvert can take some time and patience<\/span> (but is totally worth it in the end!). <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>Introverts also commonly prefer to choose their words with more care, as opposed to some extroverts, who can become human Gatling guns of conversation.<\/strong> <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">This is partly the reason why introverts are much more likely to thrive in small close-knit groups, as their <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">conversational input is much more likely to be heard and validated<\/span>, unlike in crowded social events where an individual may need to repeat themselves several times to be noticed. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">In busy social gatherings, introverts may simply prefer to hold their tongue to preserve their energy reserves until they are able to interact with one or two individuals instead of six or seven. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"p4 wp-block-heading eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Misconception_5_Introverts_have_their_Head_in_the_Clouds\"><\/span><strong>Misconception #5: Introverts have their Head in the Clouds<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">To an outside perspective, it may seem as though introverts are <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">always daydreaming<\/span> or <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">lost in a world of their own. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">This may also be more noticeable when in a crowded or foreign environment. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">This isn&rsquo;t because introverts are daydreamers, but because <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">introverts absorb stimuli differently. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>Introverts can be very detail-oriented, and when faced with a plethora of different stimuli, sights, sounds, smells, and so on, can become distracted or overwhelmed.<\/strong> <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">This can result in introverts becoming difficult to talk with in big groups. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">T<\/span><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">his is another reason why most introverts prefer much more intimate social gatherings, as it means that <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">they can give you their full attention<\/span> and have <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">much<\/span> <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">more meaningful interactions with you<\/span>, instead of fraught snippets within a large group. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"p4 wp-block-heading eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Misconception_6_Introverts_Avoid_getting_%E2%80%98Stuck-in\"><\/span><strong>Misconception #6: Introverts Avoid getting &lsquo;Stuck-in&rsquo;<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">When faced with a challenge or activity, extroverts love to get stuck-in with little prior thought or planning. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">On the other hand, <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">introverts tend to prefer to survey the scene, assess their options, and learn by observing. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>This can at times make introverts seem hesitant when it comes to accepting a challenge or undertaking an activity, but it is simply a different approach to the same task.<\/strong> <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Introverts are also much more at risk of slipping into <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">habits of perfectionism. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">This because where an extrovert will jump straight in and laugh off their mistakes, introverts can be much more <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">concerned with their outward perception. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>Put simply, introverts like to make sure they can perform any task successfully before they air their talents (or lack of) to the world.<\/strong> <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">This means that introverts can also be victims of stage fright, and can therefore display reluctance at being dragged up to do something impromptu in front of a crowd.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"p4 wp-block-heading eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Misconception_7_Introverts_are_Dull\"><\/span><strong>Misconception #7: Introverts are Dull<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\" wp-block-image size-large eplus-wrapper\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"655\" src=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/introvert-misconception-is-they-are-dull--1024x655.jpg\" alt=\"introvert misconception is they are dull \" class=\"wp-image-554394\" srcset=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/introvert-misconception-is-they-are-dull--1024x655.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/introvert-misconception-is-they-are-dull--300x192.jpg 300w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/introvert-misconception-is-they-are-dull--768x492.jpg 768w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/introvert-misconception-is-they-are-dull--960x614.jpg 960w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/introvert-misconception-is-they-are-dull--1080x691.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/introvert-misconception-is-they-are-dull-.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 24px), 720px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"655\" src=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/introvert-misconception-is-they-are-dull--1024x655.jpg.webp\" alt=\"introvert misconception is they are dull \" class=\"wp-image-554394 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/introvert-misconception-is-they-are-dull--1024x655.jpg.webp 1024w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/introvert-misconception-is-they-are-dull--300x192.jpg.webp 300w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/introvert-misconception-is-they-are-dull--768x492.jpg.webp 768w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/introvert-misconception-is-they-are-dull--960x614.jpg.webp 960w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/introvert-misconception-is-they-are-dull--1080x691.jpg.webp 1080w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/introvert-misconception-is-they-are-dull-.jpg.webp 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 24px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/introvert-misconception-is-they-are-dull-.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-3\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Because of the way that introverts approach social interactions, the more extroverted among us can perceive introverts as dull. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Introvert&rsquo;s <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">interests are also often far more sedate<\/span> than those of an extrovert.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>Introverts usually preferring reading, binge-watching a TV series, walks in the countryside or a wide range of other introspective activities, to big nights out, fair grounds, or shopping trips in a new city.<\/strong> <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Oftentimes this results in introverts being viewed as being <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">old before their time. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">As introverts tend to be less openly forthcoming with strangers or acquaintances, they can also often create a bad first impression, appearing disinterested, aloof, or just dull. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">I have experienced this first hand with some of my friends, often having been privy to statements such as &lsquo;<em>I never thought you&rsquo;d be interested in that!<\/em>&rsquo; or &lsquo;<em>to be honest I thought at first that you didn&rsquo;t like me!<\/em>&rsquo; <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Of course, from my perspective, this wasn&rsquo;t the case at all. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">I, like many introverts, just <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">need to build up some trust and rapport with a person<\/span> BEFORE I start opening up about the things that really matter to me, which are, of course, the things that really lead to worthwhile friendships.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>Because introverts spend so much time in reflection and introspection, we are also very in tune with our sense of self and our emotions.<\/strong> <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">We aren&rsquo;t afraid to talk about our feelings either, and socially often love nothing more than an in-depth one-on-one conversation about life or other deep topics. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">However, one area in which we can often lack is <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">emotional expression<\/span>, which again can suggest we are detached or aloof until you get to know us, leading to some awkward situations! <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"p4 wp-block-heading eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Misconception_8_Introverts_are_the_Weak_Link_in_Group_Work\"><\/span><strong>Misconception #8: Introverts are the Weak Link in Group Work<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Due to how <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">introverts like to play their cards close to their chest and survey a situation before making a move<\/span>, many people think that introverts are the weak link or dead weight when it comes to group work such as a school or workplace project. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">This definitely is NOT the case<\/span>, you just need to take a step back from charging forward to the next step and ask the introvert in your group for their input. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Nine times out of ten, they&rsquo;ll have a thought or feedback the rest of the group haven&rsquo;t thought of, due to time spent observing instead of acting first. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">This can mean that <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">having an introvert in your group is actually a superpower<\/span>, you just need to know how to tap into it!<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\" eplus-wrapper\"><em>Related: <a data-lasso-id=\"1030149\" href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/worst-jobs-for-introverts\/\" data-type=\"post\" data-id=\"43300\">Introverts: You Might Want to Avoid These 30 Jobs<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"p4 wp-block-heading eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Misconception_9_Introverts_and_Extroverts_Dont_Get_Along\"><\/span><strong>Misconception #9: Introverts and Extroverts Don&rsquo;t Get Along<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\" wp-block-image size-large eplus-wrapper\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"655\" src=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Introverts-and-Extroverts-Dont-Get-Along-1024x655.jpg\" alt=\"Introverts and extroverts not getting along\" class=\"wp-image-554395\" srcset=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Introverts-and-Extroverts-Dont-Get-Along-1024x655.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Introverts-and-Extroverts-Dont-Get-Along-300x192.jpg 300w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Introverts-and-Extroverts-Dont-Get-Along-768x492.jpg 768w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Introverts-and-Extroverts-Dont-Get-Along-960x614.jpg 960w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Introverts-and-Extroverts-Dont-Get-Along-1080x691.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Introverts-and-Extroverts-Dont-Get-Along.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 24px), 720px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"655\" src=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Introverts-and-Extroverts-Dont-Get-Along-1024x655.jpg.webp\" alt=\"Introverts and extroverts not getting along\" class=\"wp-image-554395 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Introverts-and-Extroverts-Dont-Get-Along-1024x655.jpg.webp 1024w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Introverts-and-Extroverts-Dont-Get-Along-300x192.jpg.webp 300w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Introverts-and-Extroverts-Dont-Get-Along-768x492.jpg.webp 768w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Introverts-and-Extroverts-Dont-Get-Along-960x614.jpg.webp 960w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Introverts-and-Extroverts-Dont-Get-Along-1080x691.jpg.webp 1080w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Introverts-and-Extroverts-Dont-Get-Along.jpg.webp 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 24px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Introverts-and-Extroverts-Dont-Get-Along.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-4\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">This couldn&rsquo;t be more false! <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><em>Introverts<\/em> and <em>extroverts<\/em> aren&rsquo;t two separate forces, but instead two sides of the same coin &ndash; like yin and yang if you will. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">This means that <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">in the right setting <em>introverts<\/em> and <em>extroverts<\/em> can actually be perfect for each other<\/span>, as they form one complete whole. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Take myself and my best friend for example. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">He is a highly extroverted career man, who organizes and attends several busy events a month. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">I, on the other hand, work from home and attend an event maybe three to five times a year. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">My best friend pushes me to step outside of my comfort zone, get more involved in activities and encourages me to speak out more when in groups. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">I, on the other hand, have been able to show my best friend my point of view, and have helped him to step back from time to time, and rest and recuperate from the stresses of day-to-day life. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><strong><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">We all need time to ourselves sometimes and being friends with an introvert can help even the most outgoing extroverts to practice this.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\" has-text-align-center eplus-wrapper eplus-styles-uid-2dbe4c\"><em><strong>RELATED: <a href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/facts-about-introverts\/\" data-type=\"post\" data-id=\"552793\">35 Fascinating Psychological Facts About Introverts<\/a><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Introverts and extroverts can also be compatible romantically. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">I know many couples that on the surface <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">seem complete opposites<\/span>; but when you sit back and observe a while (as all good introverts do), you start to notice how perfectly they bounce off one another, building one another up to form a confident and loving whole. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"p4 wp-block-heading eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Misconception_10_Introverts_are_Pushovers\"><\/span><strong>Misconception #10: Introverts are Pushovers<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">I can personally, with 100% certainty, attest to the fact that <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">this isn&rsquo;t true. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">While some may view introverts as stoic or emotionally reserved, <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">we&rsquo;re not going to stay quiet if someone is upsetting us or treating us unfairly. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">While it is true that introverts do prefer to take the perpetrator to one side to discreetly air their grievances, or wait until a suitable time afterward, <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">this does not mean that we&rsquo;re pushovers. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>Introverts just prefer to deal with things privately, as we see the problem as between us and the other person, and not the rest of the group.<\/strong> <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Introverts aren&rsquo;t passive saints either, and we can display flares of temper, oftentimes as a result of overdoing it socially and desperately needing to recharge!<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\" has-background eplus-wrapper\" style=\"background-color:#fff6e2\"><strong>Recommended post<\/strong>: Unlock the secrets to a more fulfilling life by cherishing <a href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/simple-pleasures-to-make-you-stop-and-appreciate-life\/\" data-type=\"link\" data-id=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/simple-pleasures-to-make-you-stop-and-appreciate-life\/\">simple pleasures in life<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"p4 wp-block-heading eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Misconception_11_Being_introverted_is_a_Bad_Thing\"><\/span><strong>Misconception #11: Being introverted is a Bad Thing<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\" wp-block-image size-large eplus-wrapper\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"655\" src=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Introvert-Misconception-11-1024x655.jpg\" alt=\"Cat with a I hate people sign\" class=\"wp-image-554396\" srcset=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Introvert-Misconception-11-1024x655.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Introvert-Misconception-11-300x192.jpg 300w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Introvert-Misconception-11-768x492.jpg 768w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Introvert-Misconception-11-960x614.jpg 960w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Introvert-Misconception-11-1080x691.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Introvert-Misconception-11.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 24px), 720px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"655\" src=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Introvert-Misconception-11-1024x655.jpg.webp\" alt=\"Cat with a I hate people sign\" class=\"wp-image-554396 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Introvert-Misconception-11-1024x655.jpg.webp 1024w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Introvert-Misconception-11-300x192.jpg.webp 300w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Introvert-Misconception-11-768x492.jpg.webp 768w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Introvert-Misconception-11-960x614.jpg.webp 960w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Introvert-Misconception-11-1080x691.jpg.webp 1080w, https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Introvert-Misconception-11.jpg.webp 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 24px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Introvert-Misconception-11.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-5\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">I cannot express this enough: being introverted is nothing to be ashamed of! <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">It takes all kinds of folks to make the world the wonderfully vibrant place it is and <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">you&rsquo;re just one fantastic part of it. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>Your introverted nature doesn&rsquo;t need to be fixed or remedied, and any friend pushing hard for you to change your ways may not be a friend at all!<\/strong> <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">If you&rsquo;re an extrovert reading this article to try to understand your friend or loved one, then <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">it is essential you don&rsquo;t try to FORCE them to change. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Yes, at times we introverts might need a nudge when it comes to engaging socially or stepping out of our shell; I for one am a firm believer that it is good to push your boundaries every once in a while, but you cannot magically transform us into extroverts.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Constantly feeling pressure to change from a family member, loved one, or close friend, is frankly <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Kryptonite to an introvert.<\/span> <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">It will make them draw back into their shell and revoke all the candidness and trust they&rsquo;d bestowed upon you previously. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>When an introvert opens up to you and starts to reveal their personality to you it means <\/strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>they trust you and feel relaxed around you.<\/strong> <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Constantly reminding them of what you perceive to be their weaknesses will slam this proverbial door right back in your face. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Instead, learn to love introverts for who they are, and embrace all of their good traits. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p3 eplus-wrapper\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">And if you&rsquo;re an introvert reading this, learn to love yourself. Introverts are observant, perceptive, and philosophical people, who are content with their own company, and there&rsquo;s absolutely nothing wrong with that!<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\" eplus-wrapper\">Thanks, I hope you enjoyed this article on introvert misconceptions! If you'd like to read more on introverts check out the related posts:<\/p>\n\n\n<ul class=\"eplus-wrapper wp-block-list eplus-styles-uid-001ce6\">\n<li class=\" eplus-wrapper\"><a data-lasso-id=\"2152\" href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/signs-an-introvert-likes-you\/\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">10 (Not So Obvious) Signs An Introvert Likes You<\/span><\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\" eplus-wrapper\"><a href=\"https:\/\/subconsciousservant.com\/introvert-burnout\/\" data-lasso-id=\"2187\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">13 Signs You Have Introvert Burnout [And How To Recover Quickly]<\/span><\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It is estimated that in the USA introverts make up around 35-50% of the population. 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