How many of us realise the effect we have on the atmosphere and on those around us? Each one of us carries some kind of atmosphere with us. It emanates from I, the soul, from the thoughts I have, from the attitude and awareness I have. How many of us would be happy for all of our thoughts and feelings to be clearly visible for everyone to see? Many would feel uncomfortable with this idea, and yet, that is exactly what happens all the time.
Even if people cannot hear every thought we have, our thoughts are felt to some degree or another by those in our company. The attitude and awareness we have is also captured by the spaces we live in, our homes, and even our offices to some degree. The first one to be affected by the vibrations we carry, is of course, the self. It is so important that our inner space is filled with powerful, beautiful, and elevated thoughts and attitudes, no matter what is happening in the physical environment around us. I may not be able to control what happens in the physical world, but I do need to be able to control my emotions and responses to what is happening. It is the only way I can help and serve.
We need to check the habits of thought, the patterns of our thinking that we are unconsciously vibrating into the atmosphere. Are we too sensitive to what is said about us? Do we have the habit of criticising people who do not conform to our way of doing things? Transformation needs to take place. Otherwise, our minds will become unsettled. Other people’s remarks or opinions can make us lose our happiness; other people’s comments can dampen our enthusiasm. It is important to notice how we participate in conversations. Sometimes discussions become heavy. When this happens, we can help by steering the topic to a lighter, more joyful perspective; the transformation among those present can be easily felt. It is like lighting an incense stick or bringing roses into the room. First, we have to change our own wasteful thinking, from worry and anxiety, from criticism and condemnation, and keep our minds and intellects clear and bright, seeing with understanding. Once we have generated this kind of thinking and this kind of inner atmosphere, we are able to have a clearer connection with God, the Supreme Being. This brings more clarity, more benevolence, more power. We are able to see the goodness in each one, understand the needs of another, and with love and compassion, be able to help in one way or another. Each one of us is a powerful influencer, so let us influence for the good of all.
B.K. Mohini is Additional Administrative Head of the Brahma Kumaris.